Psychoanalyst Harold Blum on the speechlessness of acute trauma

Le Silence. Painting by Odilon Redon. Circa 1895-1990. Musée d’Orsay. Work in the public domain.

In the traumatized patient, the capacity to tolerate frustration, to delay action in favor of thoughtful contemplation, to freely verbalize feelings and fantasies with preservation of self-observation and reflection are extremely important.

These skills are important for all analytic work, but they are particularly pertinent in the traumatized patient because the original traumatic situation is always speechless.

Speech is impossible during acute traumatization, and the frozen cognition, the strangulated affects of silence or screams, and the motor tendencies toward flight, fight, or chaotic thrashing all have to be ultimately replaced by verbalization. The fantasies in which the trauma has been embedded, embellished, elaborated, and validated have to be repeatedly verbalized as a central part of analytic work.

— from Blum, H. (1990). The influence of trauma on the opening phase of analysis. In T. J. Jacobs & A. Rothstein (Eds.), On beginning an analysis (pp. 67–81). International Universities Press.

Journalist and author Rachel Aviv on the impact of how we express distress

Source: own work. Author: Caballero1976. Licensed under CC BY-SA 4.0.

“In a seminal 1934 paper in The British Journal of Medical Psychology, the psychiatrist Aubrey Lewis defined insight as the ‘correct attitude to a morbid change in oneself.’ A patient with the ‘correct attitude’ understands, for instance, that the spirits of dead people are not suddenly talking to her, that the voices she hears are symptoms that medication can silence. Insight looms large in decisions about whether to hospitalize people against their will, and it is assessed nearly every time a patient enters a psychiatrist’s office.

“But the ‘correct attitude’ may depend on culture, race, ethnicity and faith. Studies show that people of color tend to be rated as lacking in insight more than those who are white, perhaps because doctors find their modes of expressing distress unfamiliar, or because these patients have less reason to trust what their doctors say. In the starkest terms, insight measures the degree to which a patient agrees with her doctor.

“The correct attitude is also historically contingent. Fifty years ago, at the height of the psychoanalytic era, a patient was said to have insight if she could recognize, say, her repressed hatred for her mother and the way that emotion had structured her life. But by the 1990s, psychoanalytic theories fell out of favor and the correct attitude came to rest on a new body of knowledge: Mental illness was seen as a neurobiological problem, and people had insight if they understood that they had disorders of the brain.

“After the surgeon general’s first ever report on mental health, in 1999, which was focused on reducing the stigma of mental illness, the surgeon general announced that there is ‘no longer any scientific justification for distinguishing between mental illness and other forms of illness,’ in part because both had biological causes.

“But while a biological framework has alleviated some kinds of stigma, it has exacerbated others. A recent meta-analysis of 26 studies concluded that people who saw mental illness as fundamentally biological or genetic were less likely to blame mental conditions on weak character or to respond in punitive ways, but more likely to view a person’s illness as uncontrollable, alienating and dangerous.

“The disease came to be seen as static and unyielding, a strike of lightning that couldn’t be redirected. In her memoir ‘The Center Cannot Hold,’ Elyn Saks, a professor of law, psychology and psychiatry at the University of Southern California, wrote that when she was diagnosed with schizophrenia she felt as if she were ‘being told that whatever had gone wrong inside my head was permanent and, from all indications, unfixable. Repeatedly, I ran up against words like ‘debilitating’, ‘baffling,’ ‘chronic,’ ‘catastrophic,’ ‘devastating’ and ‘loss.’”

— excerpted from Aviv, R. (2022, September 20). How do we turn symptoms into words? / Do you need a “correct attitude” to understand your mind? The New York Times. Ms. Aviv is the author of the book “Strangers to Ourselves: Unsettled Minds and the Stories That Make Us,” from which this essay is adapted.

Poet and novelist Gioconda Belli on the rebellion of men against the feminine

Nicaraguan poet and novelist, Gioconda Belli. Madrid, Spain, June 1, 2009. Licensed under CC BY-SA 4.0.

“Aunt Inés used to say that men were fickle and unfathomable. Nights walled off by stars. The stars were the cracks through which the woman peeked out. The men were the cave, the fire in the middle of the mastodons, the safety of broad chests, the large hands holding the woman in the act of love; beings who enjoyed the advantage of having no fixed horizons or the boundaries of confined spaces. The eternally privileged. Even though they all came out of the womb of a woman and depended on her to grow and breathe, to be fed, to have their first contact with the world, to learn words to speak; later they seemed to rebel with unusual brutality against this dependence, subduing the feminine sign, dominating it, denying the power of those who through the pain of open legs gave them the universe, life.”

Original Text

“La tía Inés decía que los hombres eran caprichosos e impenetrables. Noches cerradas con estrellas. Las estrellas eran los resquicios por donde la mujer se asomaba. Los hombres eran la cueva, el fuego en medio de los mastodontes, la seguridad de los pechos anchos, las manos grandes sosteniendo a la mujer en el acto del amor; seres que disfrutaban de la ventaja de no tener horizontes fijos, o los límites de espacios confinados. Los eternos privilegiados. A pesar de que todos salían del vientre de una mujer, que dependían de ella para crecer y respirar, para alimentarse, tener los primeros contactos con el mundo, aprender a conocer las palabras; luego parecían rebelarse con inusitada fiereza contra esta dependencia, sometiendo al signo femenino, dominándolo, negando el poder de quienes a través del dolor de piernas abiertas les entregaban el universo, la vida.”

— from Belli, G. (1988). La mujer habitada / The inhabited woman. Editorial Txalaparta s.l.