Mohsin Hamid on balancing realism and optimism

photo of Mohsin Hamid at a reading from his book, How to Get Filthy Rich in Rising Asia, at Greenlight Bookstore in Brooklyn, New York. Author: Mr. choppers
Mohsin Hamid at a reading from his book, How to Get Filthy Rich in Rising Asia, at Greenlight Bookstore in Brooklyn, New York. 12 March 2013. Author: Mr. choppers. Licensed under CC BY-SA 3.0

Ezra Klein: Iโ€™m curious, for you, about the practice, the discipline of trying to be able to imagine and articulate better futures, even as you try to be realistic about the present.

Mohsin Hamid: Well, I think that itโ€™s always worth interrogating why we do stuff. And if you take, for example, a kind of pessimistic acceptance, which is not longing for the past, but a sense that the things that one wishes for โ€” a more inclusive society, a less racist society, a more equal society โ€” are slipping away for complicated reasons, and nothing can be done โ€” the environment is just going to go to pot, and thatโ€™s sort of it.

The other part of it, though, is that it is incredibly difficult to reckon with this feeling of defeat, of loss. It isnโ€™t “I seem to be losing out, the world is going in the wrong direction.” [It’s] โ€œHow do I survive this? How do I deal with my profound sense of despair at the situation?โ€

And human life, I think, is a good parallel. So of course, weโ€™re all going to get older. You know, of course, weโ€™re all going to die. What is our stance in relation to that?

So it would be ridiculous to say, โ€œWell, this is never going to happen to me. I feel like thereโ€™s a way out of this. Iโ€™m going to eat something or get an injection or something will happen, and itโ€™s going to save me.โ€ I can understand the appeal, but it seems profoundly misguided, as far as I can see.

Itโ€™s the optimism of โ€œI have something of value yet to give, and it is meaningful for me to pass that on.โ€

Mohsin Hamid

But also to say, โ€œYou know what, Iโ€™m going to get old, nothing can be done, letโ€™s just carry on.โ€ Itโ€™s an interesting response, right? Itโ€™s entirely possible that we do learn something, that there is some wisdom.

And in [Hamid’s book, The Last White Man], for example, thereโ€™s the character of Andersโ€™s father, whoโ€™s ill and who is dying, and whose mission, in a way, is to try to somehow pass on to his son how you die well. You know, what could this mean? What is it to do this thing? And in a sense, that is a, I think โ€” Andersโ€™s father has all sorts of views that I might not agree with, but in that particular attempt to pass on to his son something of meaning and something of wisdom from the old and from those near to mortality to those who are young, there is an activity there. And thatโ€™s something that the elders of every tribe throughout human history have done towards the young in their tribe forever.

We, I think, should consider that. And what kind of optimism does that mean? Itโ€™s not the optimism of โ€œI will live forever.โ€ Itโ€™s the optimism of โ€œI have something of value yet to give, and it is meaningful for me to pass that on.โ€ And so I suppose what I would come to on this is that the reaction of a kind of pessimistic acceptance, to me, feels like it is less than what could be hoped for. It is possible to try for more than that. And I think that, as a writer and as an artist, but also as a father and as a human being, it isnโ€™t โ€” while itโ€™s understandable to me, it isnโ€™t appealing to me.

โ€” from Hamid, M., & Klein, E. (2022, August 12). How do we face loss with dignity? The Ezra Klein Show.

Freya Manfred on old friends

Old Friends
by Freya Manfred

Old friends are a steady spring rain,
or late summer sunshine edging into fall,
or frosted leaves along a snowy pathโ€”
a voice for all seasons saying, I know you.
The older I grow, the more I fear Iโ€™ll lose my old friends,
as if too many years have scrolled by
since the day we sprang forth, seeking each other.

Old friend, I knew you before we met.
I saw you at the window of my soulโ€”
I heard you in the steady millstone of my heart
grinding grain for our daily bread.
You are sedimentary, rock-solid cousin earth,
where I stand firmly, astonished by your grace and truth.
And gratitude comes to me and says:

โ€œTell me anything and I will listen.
Ask me anything, and I will answer you.โ€


Manfred, F. (2018). Old Friends. In Loon In Late November Water. Red Dragonfly Press.

Kathryn Bond Stockton on gender and masculinity

“There are so many different things interacting with that thing we falsely isolate as ‘gender.’ What is the interaction of those elements that produces either a sense of ease, or a sense of concern and anxiety?

“Part of what we’re seeing in our culture is tremendous anxiety surrounding boys, young men, and I have to imagine that that doesn’t really end later in life. Sometimes later in life we all kind of get used to things and we chill. But I have a feeling that these things do remain of concern because they are so extremely bounded. And that’s where, if you watch something like Fight Club, or watch other cultural products, they get at the strange way that white men in particular sort of painted themselves into a corner. Masculinity becomes a whole series of things you can’t do.”

โ€” from The Ezra Klein Show – Gender is complicated for all of us. Letโ€™s talk about it. (2022, August 5). The New York Times.